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    Default CPS takes 11 yr old boy for playing alone in his yard

    11-Year-Old Boy Played in His Yard. CPS Took Him, Felony Charge for Parents

    An interview with two parents who lost their kids... over nothing.

    One afternoon this past April, a Florida mom and dad I'll call Cindy and Fred could not get home in time to let their 11-year-old son into the house. The boy didn't have a key, so he played basketball in the yard. He was alone for 90 minutes. A neighbor called the cops, and when the parents arrived—having been delayed by traffic and rain—they were arrested for negligence.

    They were put in handcuffs, strip searched, fingerprinted, and held overnight in jail.

    It would be a month before their sons—the 11-year-old and his 4-year-old brother—were allowed home again. Only after the eldest spoke up and begged a judge to give him back to his parents did the situation improve.

    I spoke with Cindy about her family’s horrible ordeal.

    "My older one was the so-called 'victim,'" she said during a phone interview. But since she and her husband were charged with felony neglect, the younger boy had to be removed from the home, too.

    Here is the law: "A person who willfully or by culpable negligence neglects a child without causing great bodily harm, permanent disability, or permanent disfigurement to the child commits a felony of the third degree."

    I first heard of Cindy's case last week when she wrote to me at Free-Range Kids. Her email explained:
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    The authorities claim he had no access to water or shelter. We have an open shed in the back yard and 2 working sinks and 2 hoses. They said he had no food. He ate his snacks already. He had no bathroom, but the responding officer found our yard good enough to relieve himself in while our son sat in a police car alone. In his own yard, in a state, Florida, that has no minimum age for children to be alone.
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    The children were placed in foster care for two days while the state ran a background check on a relative who was willing to take them in. "Our first choice was my mother," said Cindy. "But she lives in another state and so the kids would have been in foster care even longer until they cleared her." The parents decided to have them placed with a slightly problematic in-state relative instead.

    On the day they all appeared in children's court to move the kids from foster care into the relative's custody, Cindy thought her older son smelled a little strange.

    "What have you been eating?" she asked.

    "Cereal," he replied.

    Only cereal, for the past few days. That's not going to kill anyone, obviously. But if you're arresting parents for not supervising their kids for 90 minutes, it's more than a little hypocritical.

    The boys went off with the relative. As Cindy and Fred were charged with a felony, they couldn't cross the county line to go see them and the relative refused to bring them to visit. But after a few weeks, she got tired of taking care of the kids. "Unbeknownst to us," said Cindy, "she was putting them back in state custody."

    That's when Child Protective Services asked the court to place the boys in foster care.

    Last Tuesday, Cindy, Fred, their two kids, their lawyer, and a lawyer for CPS appeared again in children's court. The opposing lawyers went into the judge's chambers and came out every so often. The family's lawyer explained what was going on. "They were arguing on whether or not the kids should go to foster care or with us,” said Cindy. This went on for hours.

    But then, according to Cindy, "My son spoke up." He said he wanted to talk to the judge.

    Surprised, their lawyer asked the boy: Did he have the courage to go through with this? And would he tell the truth?

    The boy said yes.

    "He went back there and spoke to the judge for about ten minutes," said Cindy. "And then the judge came out and called the two lawyers to the bench and talked to them for about 10 or 15 minutes. And with that, our lawyer came to us and said that if we admitted that we didn't know that it was wrong to [let our son] stay in the backyard, but that we know now that it's wrong and we will never let it happen again, and that we will explain this to our son, he would let the children come with us."

    Cindy and Fred promised. The judge released the kids and closed the case.

    But that is not the end.

    That was civil court. Next, Cindy and Fred will head to criminal court to plead "not guilty" to the neglect charge. Naturally, they hope the entire case will be dropped.

    In the meantime, to comply with all of the CPS dictates, Cindy and Fred are attending parenting classes. They are also going to therapy. The kids are attending "play" therapy.

    This summer, as part of the deal, the older boy must attend day camp. The younger must attend day care. The reason, Cindy thinks, is that years ago there was a girl who disappeared while in foster care and it turned out that no one had been keeping track of her whereabouts. If kids attend day camp or daycare, their whereabouts will always be accounted for.

    I asked Cindy how she and the kids spent last summer.

    "We did little projects, we would go to the beach," she said. Or they would visit dad at work. She had been planning to enjoy another low key summer with them.

    Instead, she will be at home while her kids are in a program mandated by the state.

    Cindy and Fred cannot be sure who called the cops and turned their lives upside down. (They have their suspicions.) But they do know who told them they needed to take parenting classes, get therapy, and promise never to let their kids play in their own backyard without a watchman again. They know who took their children away.

    And you know, too.

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    I just might would show them what a true felony was!

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    Yeah. I'd likely kill someone over that crap.

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    My parents might as well be under the jail for the crap we did when we were 11. 90 minutes alone ain't nuttin...

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    11 is too young to be alone especially outside with no one home, these days for sure. The parents screwed up. However the state is overboard and it's bullshit. They should be so worried about the kids in school who's only meal of the day every day of he week is at school. The schools are full of them.
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    I'm speechless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Palmetto Duck View Post
    11 is too young to be alone especially outside with no one home, these days for sure. The parents screwed up. However the state is overboard and it's bullshit. They should be so worried about the kids in school who's only meal of the day every day of he week is at school. The schools are full of them.
    His nosey ass neighbor was obviously watching him. Damn the stupid people in this world. If she was so worried she would have asked him to come to her house...

    I'll edit to say, our neighbor lost his key and couldn't get in after school. Guess where he came? I won't say how old he is for fear of someone calling the cops. Not picking on you PD. Just fed up with society in general.
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    The neighbor should live in fear for her life.

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    I would burn that nosy fucking neighbors house down

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    Quote Originally Posted by Palmetto Duck View Post
    11 is too young to be alone especially outside with no one home, these days for sure. The parents screwed up. However the state is overboard and it's bullshit. They should be so worried about the kids in school who's only meal of the day every day of he week is at school. The schools are full of them.
    Dude at 11 I was never inside or with my parents. We had bottlerocket wars and dirt bomb fights. We would ride the 4 wheelers to The store to buy some chew and if it was a Saturday we would sit on the side of the road and watch the beach traffic go by and hope a cop would try to tell us not to ride on the paved road, and we always had a gun with us. Gangsta...

    I will would kill people buy the handfuls if they took my child for that reason. No lie.
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    Quote Originally Posted by santee11 View Post
    Dude at 11 I was never inside or with my parents. We had bottlerocket wars and dirt bomb fights. We would ride the 4 wheelers to The store to buy some chew and if it was a Saturday we would sit on the side of the road and watch the beach traffic go by and hope a cop would try to tell us not to ride on the paved road, and we always had a gun with us. Gangsta...

    I will would kill people buy the handfuls if they took my child for that reason. No lie.
    I would have loved to see a cop "try" to put a set of handcuffs on Ole Rebbel for some of the things we did in the hood. Priceless!

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    Quote Originally Posted by santee11 View Post
    Dude at 11 I was never inside or with my parents. We had bottlerocket wars and dirt bomb fights. We would ride the 4 wheelers to The store to buy some chew and if it was a Saturday we would sit on the side of the road and watch the beach traffic go by and hope a cop would try to tell us not to ride on the paved road, and we always had a gun with us. Gangsta...

    I will would kill people buy the handfuls if they took my child for that reason. No lie.
    I mean left alone at home alone and locked out of the house at 11 is too young, especially today. If the neighbor was worth two squirts of piss they would have walked outside and waited with the kid until the parents got home. Calling the cops is spineless pussy bullshit in this situation.
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    I believe 11 is when I started riding my bike/walking home from school and staying at the house by myself until around 5:30 or 6 when mom and dad would get home. I had chores that kept me busy for about half the time and after that would be across the street at the park with my friend whom were also left alone until mom hollered for supper or the street lights came on. The world is safer now for the most part, statistics prove it...maybe cause kids aint allowed out of their driveway without their parents, I don't know. One thing's for sure, there is definitely not a sense of community like there used to be. Everybody in the neighborhood would tell my momma on me if I was acting out of line in a big way.
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    You guys realize you're only getting the parent's point of view as told to the writer via telephone.

    You might want to consider that the parents may be fudging the facts in their favor and are actually bad parents with a history of neglectful care of their children.

    The neighbor may have been good people and ready to step out of the house and provide assistance if needed while waiting on police. They may have been living next door to shitty parents for years and tired of worrying about the children's welfare and finally had enough.

    You guys just don't know all of the facts and are reacting like a bunch of "low information voters" to a one sided media version of the events.

    Carry on........

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    I would sue the ever livin fuck out of the state of florida, imo they are as bad a California. buncha old liberal ass Yankees down there

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    This is complete and utter bullshit from beginning to end. The neighbor needs a gasoline enema, the State of FL needs a lawsuit filed against them, and a bunch of people need to be fired. At least the judge showed some sense.

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    Nanny state at it finest.
    Yeah, but do you consider a dog to be a filthy animal? I wouldn't go so far as to call a dog filthy but they're definitely dirty. But, a dog's got personality. Personality goes a long way.


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